Etiquette

When it comes to etiquette in Sri Lanka, Sri Lankans are tolerant people and won’t be offended if visitors make a social gaffe. However, there are some things we are super sensitive about, so please remember to respect Sri Lanka’s religions and culture.

Read – Visiting a place of worship

Eating with your fingers

If you are lucky enough to be invited to join a local family for lunch and there is no cutlery, that means you are expected to eat the Sri Lankan way – with the fingers of your right hand (not the left; that is used for ablutions). Use your fingers and thumb to mix the food together in a convenient-sized morsel, which you then pop into your mouth using your thumb as a guide. If you cannot manage, it will not cause offence if you ask for a spoon instead.

Basic etiquette in Sri Lanka to remember

• Temple footwear Remove shoes and hats at temples. Socks are OK for walking scorching pavements.
• Clothing Cover shoulders, arms and legs at temples as directed.
• Buddha statues Never pose beside or in front of a statue (ie with your back to it), as this is considered disrespectful.
• Buddha images Displaying body art or wearing clothing that includes an image of the Buddha can get you arrested and deported.
• Photography Ask permission before photographing people. A few business-oriented folks like the stilt fishermen at Koggala will ask for payment.
• Beach attire Nude and topless sunbathing is not allowed on beaches. Public nudity is illegal in Sri Lanka
• Public displays of affection (PDA), such as kissing and/or hugging are frowned upon.
• Avoid left hands These are considered unclean. Use both hands or just your right.
• Avoid smoking in public – Read – Smoking and the law
• LGBTQ travellers should be aware that same-sex relations are still illegal in Sri Lanka.

Last Modified: April 16, 2024