Can I have sex in Sri Lanka?

Sex in Sri Lanka and Escorts in Colombo

Although it may seem like it at first, Sri Lanka is not barren if you are looking for a sexual encounter during your holiday, but this is a conservative country and you will find that sex is not a blatant tourism product as in Thailand.

Sri Lanka is a country with strong moral ethics (someone is sure to object to us even mentioning sex and tourists on this website). People are reserved, too. While there are Asian countries that are synonymous with “sex appeal.” Sri Lanka is not one of them.

But don’t let that put you off. Yes, you can, as a visitor, have sex in Sri Lanka – just as you can anywhere in the world: it’s a matter of mutual attraction, charm, shared interest, and probably some expense (as in any courtship).

And yes, sex as a no-strings-attached, commercial arrangement for males is available. Where? Ask In all the usual suspect places: seedy nightclubs, lowlife casinos, dodgy massage parlours – or consult a tuk-tuk driver.

And for the woman looking for a no-ties date with a Sri Lankan man? Simply use your charm.

One word of warning. There are many stories in the international press about foreign women visiting here as tourists and falling in love, not just with Sri Lanka, but with a handsome Sri Lankan too. It seems like true romance! But is it?

Sometimes it lasts but usually, it doesn’t and the Sri Lankan and the tourist part disillusioned, usually with the tourist being a lot poorer.

Of course, it’s possible, but it’s up to you! You’ll find your visit to Sri Lanka will be fulfilling if you forget sex (for once) and put your trust in the key to fun in Sri Lanka – “Serendipity.”

Where can I Have Sex?

There are “spas” in the main tourist centres, with dozens in Colombo. They advertise in the Sunday newspapers and some offer Full Body Treatment by “Tamil, Sinhala Young Girls and Boys, Professional and Friendly.”

Brothels and Swinging Clubs

There are no legal brothels in Colombo and the closest thing you can find is places operating as massage parlours (However, not all massage parlours have a sex option.) Freelance prostitutes can sometimes found in clubs, bars and hotels.

It is important to keep in mind that soliciting is illegal in Sri Lanka. Any customers must be exceptionally discreet when picking up at venues. Quite often, the prostitutes are known to the management who turn a blind eye to their activities.

The clubs and bars around the city’s entertainment districts have independent hookers using them as bases, so head to popular bars and hotels in Colombo Fort or Kollupitiya.

Other options include Traditional Chinese Medicine clinics which can sometimes be found to provide sexual services.

Sri Lanka For Gays

Before we go any further, homosexuality is an illegal activity in Sri Lanka.

But that doesn’t mean there is no gay life. There is. It’s just not flaunted.

So for a visitor who wants to hook up with a Sri Lankan same-sex partner, discretion and care is advised.

Last Modified: April 16, 2024